What Makes a Woman Attractive
Our culture can be said to be obsessed with attractive women. Or with how attractive certain women are.
Take Kate Middleton. We don’t see articles written about what she studied in university, or whether she is passionate about reducing her environmental footprint or cooking vegan food or reading American short stories. Nope.
We read about how glossy her hair looked at that charity event the other day, or how thin she is, or how she looks so absolutely fabulous on the cover of Hello last week.
It can get kinda tiresome, right? I mean there is more to being an attractive woman than the outer shell. There really is. Having a reasonably hot look might allure greater numbers of men than not, but when it comes to really being attractive, to being a woman that people want to be around, we have to look deeper. To who the woman really is.
Openness
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Being open is a magnetic feminine quality. Life is complex — sometimes it seems as if there are a series of traps that we have to navigate around — and we can become quite jaded in the process, not sure who to trust. A woman who maintains the ability to be open and friendly is like a breath of sweet, fresh air in a stagnant garden.
OK, maybe comparing the planet to a stagnant garden goes a bit too far but you get the point. Remembering the old-fashioned idea that being friendly is important — and not being totally distrustful when you meet someone new is a good thing. And an alluring thing as well.
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Smarts
It is cool to hang out with a girl that knows what is going on. A girl who reads, who knows about the current political scene, who takes an interest in some kind of intellectual life is most definitely an appealing girl. (BTW if you are a guy that is looking for advanced dating tips and techniques, check out review of The Tao of Badass Dating System by Joshua Pellicer) Because there is a fascinating planet out there that we are visiting for a relatively short period of time and it is cool to be the kind of person — woman– who is into it in a real way. Someone who brings a natural curiosity to the everyday.
Passion
I knew a woman once who got a license for a scooter so that she could drive up a mountain early on weekends — early meaning 5 AM — so that she could photograph the mist that rose up among the surrounding hills at that time. Another female friend bought herself a light kayak, one that she could carry herself, so that she could paddle along the coastline near her home. Anytime. These are passionate women, making their interests count for something. And that is a captivating quality that gets noticed.
Sensuality
Sensuality doesn’t mean strolling on a twilight beach, wearing a wet clingy dress, looking dewy-eyed. And it is a good thing too. I mean, most women don’t even live by a beach. So…but this is not to say that being mindful of your sexual self is not beyond appealing. The sweet smell of a citrus shampoo, the softness of your skin as you are caressed, a flirty demeanor in conversation; these things go a long way in getting wanted attention. Showing that you are a sensual and sexual being is a way to show that you like being noticed, and you like attention of the right sort.
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Compassion
Life can be tricky, a trial of sorts. We feel more secure, more steady, when we have a caring partner in our corner. Someone who can really put themselves in our shoes, who makes the effort to see us as we see ourselves, is a person worth holding on to. We do not like to lose ourselves in our relationships, it must be said, but a strong woman who can be a guide through stormy times radiates an alluring appeal.
Physical fitness
Let’s speak in general terms here. Because there are lots of women who are not physically fit that are supremely attractive. But a body that is physically appealing is provocative and inviting. You don’t have to look like the female version of Adonis to make your physical being work for you. Reasonably fit will do just fine. Taking regular exercise and pumping up the veggies and fish in your diet is not only a smart, healthy choice but will see you getting a little more attention in the dating world.
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Stability
No, not as shallow as it seems. A woman who has it going on in a professional way finds herself charming many possible partners. And this is not because of money, at least not for the worthy suitors, but is just because someone who has found their way in society, or is on a path toward where she wants to be, is a comfortable person to be with, to be around. Whether you are a student who knows what she wants or a web designer who is rocking your own business, your ingenuity is an asset on planet dating.
Relaxed
An uptight vibe is edgy. Not good edgy. The opposite of that. The ability to relax, to get into the moment, radiates out from a chilled-out being. And others want to be part of that. It always great, because relaxed woman is the best thing on the first date. Being someone that it is good to come home to is a winsome asset.
Further resources on the topic of being an attractive woman:
- How to Be an Attractive Woman: 14 steps (with pictures) – wikiHow
- The Male Room: What makes a woman sexy? | Gallery | Glo
- How to Be the Most Attractive Woman In the Room
So, the next time you get into a self-evaluation mode, push away the tendency to compare your physical self to other physical beings. It is not useful, or even healthy. Sure, if you want to take reasonable steps to be the best possible physical you, go for it. Why not? We all feel more confident when we are satisfied with how we look. But do remember that it is really the inner you that attracts potential partners. And this is true, it is not just something normal-looking people tell each other to feel better. Live well, throw yourself into life, and you will find that you are a woman that people want to be around, to connect to.
